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Ecclesiastes 3

American Standard Version (ASV)

3  For everything there is a season, and a time for every purpose under heaven:  ^{2 ...} a time to plant, and a time to pluck up that which is planted;

TIME...spared...spent...

The Healing had its Premiere Night July 24, 2012.  Kim was not expecting Xian to  be there. He was in Nasugbu, Batangas shooting a music video and had told her he could not make it.  His arrival was a complete surprise to Kim; a most pleasant one.  A fan twitted, "...if there's a wing, there's a way."  He must have flown the distance to be there before the movie started.

XIAN LIM ‏@XianLimm

Ganda ng #the healing!!!! :-))) congrats sa buong cast and sa STARCINEMA :-))) At salamat din kasi hindi ako makakatulog ngayong gabi -_-

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24 JulXIAN LIM ‏@XianLimm

Grabe layo ng nasugbo haha Nakakahilo bhyaheeeeeee..feeling sickkkkkkk

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If there is anything Xian is most generous with Kim, I see that it is the time that he carves from his own prime time to be   joyfully  spent  with her.   This is a test that he has passed - making time where there seems to be no time.

               

                   CTO - HE MADE IT TO SHANG! HAPPINESS!

            Xian surprising Kim on Premiere Night of The Healing-7-24-12

CTO - Kim recounting Xian's surprise attendance on 2:29

    http://www.youmaker.com/   Thanks, Disco.

 CTO - Ladies in Red - The Healing Premiere Night

Kim - 2nd from right.                                   

"Vilma, however, said she didn’t ask Kim about her love life. The young actress is being romantically linked to fellow Kapamilya actor Xian Lim".http://www.abs-       cbnnews.com/entertainment/07/25/12/healing-holds-successful-premiere-night                                 

               CTO - Xian  made it to the KimXi Block Screening with his Mom

with flowers for Kim. 

On July 26, 2012,  KimChiu Global (with the Vilmanians) and the Kimeralds had Block Screenings on the same day, one after the other, at the Shang.  

The night before the Star Magic Games, July 28, 2012, Xian and his Mom Mary Anne graced the 4th and last Block Screening (SM Block) of the day for Kim; earlier Kim attended three others in quick succession; that of KimWorld; KimPossible; KimNation.  The first two were held at Gateway Theatre while KimNation was at The Podium.  

  

 Kim attended all six block screenings and this tremendous support given by fan clubs, four of them her own and the two others related with her and two others Xian's fan clubs. 

Surprising, since Xian's fan clubs came in full force for Kim, Xianatics, Team FX.  What a beautiful  feeling of oneness; something new and wonderful; all too true, "in Union, there is Strength".

@XianLimm

Moments like this sobra nakakatuwa:-))) magkakasama ang mga KimXis, Xianatics, TeamFX, Tropang KimUy, KimXI UNIVERSAL, kimNation...

                  

                  CTO - Xian's Mom Mary Anne and Kim's surrogate Mom Portia,

                 leading the walk inside the Cinema with Kim and Xian afoot.

raquel de ocampo @raquel_rosal
@annalynm28 ayiiiiiiii nasa backstage pa yata sila wait si kim kakain pa yata

Istin Cornista @istin3
Si Xi ayaw pa bumaba ng car... E mamaya pa si kimmy inaantay pa siguro si BABE :-)))

Anna Lyn_KX @annalynm28
"@jespinosa09: nasa labas na sila"

Anna Lyn_KX @annalynm28
"@jespinosa09: papasok na raw si Kim Chiu ng cinema" yyyyyaaaaahhhhooooo:-)

Anna Lyn_KX @annalynm28
"@_jenjenjen22: Sabay sabay pumasok dito sa cinema si Kim, Xian and Mommry Mary Anne!!! Waaaaahhhhh #thehealing"

 CTO - Kim and Xian facing the limelight together.

Sign of the times?  The Reunion, next stop.

                                 CTO - Kim and Xian - all smiles.

                   CTO - Xian proudly looking at Kim doing her thank yous.

Xian oblivious to the milling crowd...all eyes for Kim only.

"kay kim pa din nakatingin habang nag tetenkyu speech si kim.hehe" Abby Garcia

CTO- Kim delivering her Thank Yous.

It is no wonder why Xian is all taken--the personality shines through brightly.

 CTO  Xian  smilingly seated  in between the two of the most important women in his life. His  Mom    and Kim.  Only other woman is her Mama Lola who resides in the U.S.

KimXi Block Screening of  The Healing at the SM Block - 7-28-12. Sharing one bottled water.  What, no scare?  raquel de ocampo @raquel_rosal

@KC_Fuertez hahahaha nagsusubuan sila tapos sabay inom sa isang bottled water

Anna Lyn_KX @annalynm28   "@ShookHeart: Subuan ng popcorn??? #KIMXITHEHEALINGBLOCKSCREENING"

Jenjenjen @_jenjenjen22

Ayan na... Nag-sstart na silang gumawa ng sariling mundo haha. Nag-uusap sila now habang umiinom c kim ng

water. LOL #thehealing

dorothy joy @djtadina

Bulungan ng bulungan

blessy austria @lessthanthreekx

                                "@djtadina: Ngtatawanan *** 2 )" horror comedy ba. 

FULLMOON GIRLS KimXi @FullmoonGirls
Kim pang-ilan mo ng panood toh? (Kim making beso sa mga tao) ayyyy, okay di ako pinapansin ni kim hahaha! -Xian

Anna Lyn_KX @annalynm28
"@_jenjenjen22: Magkatabi si Kim & Xian sa upuan... Nasa right ni Xian ni Mommy Mary Anne! #thehealing LOL"


Peekachu Killban Icaly
blessy austria @lessthanthreekx
"@djtadina: Iisang bottle *** **** dapat ang water?? Ganyan??" waaaahhhh!!! nangingisay nako dito. 

CTO -  Xian introducing Kim to his Mom's best friend. 

All in the family now.           

) 

CTO - Xian up the stairs with Kim, making sure...

He watched the whole show again, presumably  for his Mom while Kim also stayed over.

CTO 

Kim and Xian, displaying identical  sparkling, dreamy eyes and open-mouthed  smiles, escorted out of the venue by in-house security.  

                                

CTO - Xian's jacket over Kim; her purse on his arm holding her fast in the drizzle.

Xian acting Kim's own Knight in Shining Umbrella. Chivalry is not dead!

CTO - Xian getting Kim into her SUV.  

Xian ever the gentleman to his lady.

dorothy joy ‏@djtadina

Ang sweet ni xian super tinanggal ang jacket at un ang ginawa nyang takip or payong for kim 

WORK...enjoying the process...

Sunday, July 29th, a day after a hectic The Healing day, Kim and Xian went to the Star Magic Games at the Celebrity Sports Club in Quezon City sporting  different colors.  Star Magic talents arrived as early as 7 a.m.

Xian, Captain of his Blue Team in blue; Kimmy in red. Their disparate colors did not deter them from mingling and blending well that  if they were liquid they would have turned Purple, the color of nobility, befitting our Chinito Prince and Chinita Princess. 

(Violet is a spectral color (approximately 380–420 nm), of a shorter wavelength than blue, while purple is a combination of red and blue or violet light.^[10] The purples are colors that are not spectral colors – purples are extra-spectral colors. - In human color psychology, purple is also associated with royalty and nobility (stemming from classical antiquity when Tyrian purple was only affordable to the elites).Wikipedia.

                                         

                                               CTO - Xian and his  Blue Team.

   Is that hip-hop, Xian?  Basketball with a diff...the team played First runner-up to the Yellow Team captained by Gerald Anderson. 

There were around 300 artists in the area but there was only one he gravitated to; Xian is consistent and that is what we like in him. He is true to his word.  He is open in his admiration.  He is telling the world his preference and he is keeping himself  out of  the dating game as he is also warding off fellow male artists with some ideas from the object of his affection. He has found his  woman and her name is Kim Chiu.  If is not clear to the bystander yet, it is clear now. Xian has chosen and he has chosen well.

“Consistent naman siya, nandun naman yung consistency sa kanya.  Okay naman, masaya naman kami pag magkasama kami. “Yung family ko, sinusuyo niya, so nakakatuwa lang yung ganung feeling.” (Kim on Xian's courting technique) - 

http://pep.ph/news/35109/kim-chiu-reveals-courtship-strategy-of-xian-lim-ldquoyung-family-ko-sinusuyo-niya-so-nakakatuwa-lang-yung-ganung-feelingrdquo  by Melba Llanera.

  CTO - Kim, the object of Xian's affection.  "Keep off the grass", says Xian.

                 6'2" Captain of the Blue Team closely  guarding his lady in red.

    CTO  - Shy guy Xian... "CLOSEST MALE FRIEND. Aminado naman si Kim na si Xian ang pinakamalapit na lalaki sa kanya sa ngayon, kaya tinanong namin kung may definite date kung kailan niya ito sasagutin. “Siguro, oo naman, siguro. Siguro naman, siya ang pinakamalapit na lalaki sa puso ko. “Wala namang definite date... time will tell. Masaya naman kami, ine-enjoy namin ang isa’t isa.”  Pep.ph Tuesday, July 31, 2012 @ 08:05AM  |  5219 views http://pep.ph/news/35109/kim-chiu-reveals-courtship-strategy-of-xian-lim-ldquoyung-family-ko-sinusuyo-niya-so-nakakatuwa-lang-yung-ganung-feelingrdquo  by Melba Llanera.

   Kim , using terms as "pinakamalapit na lalaki sa puso ko" is also marking Xian   who, in a separate interview,  relishes the phrase and showed it.

    CTO - Star Magic Games - Kim and Xian bonding during off individual games.

@Push_Mina: 
KimXi rocks! Kahit breaktime, magkasama pa rin si Kim Chiu at Xian Lim. Mukhang enjoy sila today! 

                     
                   CTO - You know it's work when the press come avisiting.

                           Kim and Xian with Ogie Diaz.
                             

                           CTO - The Press and their ubiquitous cameras

               

Kim and Xian, hanging around each other gets themselves photographed as a couple. If one does not yet  know that they like each other's company, then one is  either blind or in denial.

            CTO -  All sweaty and all smiles; placing runner -up to the Yellow  Team notwithstanding.  To Kim, he's the winner, looks like, and he beams.

                         CTO - Xian guarding Gerald from scoring.

       Xian's presence in the other team must have been an added incentive.

                         CTO Kim cheering for the Blue Team - Xian's team.

dorothy joy @djtadina

"@tinnamariaboni: The pretty Kim Chiu watching the basketball championship. http://pic.twitter.com/

uAAKBQuy" wahhhhh ngccheer for xian

Star Magic Games 2012 (Part 2)   CTO    Pepnews.ph

"Sa gitna ng championship game ng Yellow at Blue Teams ay pinulikat si Gerald Anderson, na halos sa harap mismo ng nanonood na si Kim Chiu bumagsak. Noon ay nagtsi-cheer si Kim para kay Xian Lim ng Blue Team.  Nang mahawi ang mga taong dumamay sa pinulikat na aktor ay nawala na si Kim sa kanyang kinauupuan."

http://www.pep.ph/photos/3185/star-magic-games-2012-part-2
 

 CTO - The damsel in distress the night before, sniffling and all, wins despite.

   Someone has commented, "Jousting should be renamed Exhausting".


PUSH ALERT @Push_Mina
Don't underestimate Kim Chiu! Nkakabilib sya panuorin sa jousting kahapon! Here's our EXCLUSIVE video on PUSH! http://www.push.com.ph/videos/162/ki...with-jousting/ 

                                       CTO - Some Badminton form.

    CTO - Chinita Princess displaying her medals.

• chinitaprincess tiring but SUPER fun starmagic sportsfest is the best!!! GO RED TEAM OVER ALL CHAMPION!!! yahooooooo!!!! CONGRATS GUYZZZ!!!i also got the special award:most played player!!! hahaha #superfun   2d
• hayss03 Congratz   1d

The year 2012 is a good year. This is the year when the seeds of happiness  sown by Xian the year before  have grown and are flowering and soon to bear fruit.  There is still some waiting time.  The fruit still have to ripen but definitely, with some patience which is a quality of love, the harvest would be bountiful.

⁴ Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. ⁵ It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. ⁶ Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. ⁷ It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. (1Corinthians 13: 4-6)

ohohkusieho ‏@kusieho
At work  @xianlimm http://instagr.am/p/Nuk-eXRiXk/ 

 CTO - There's work...



                           CTO

and there's  togetherness   after work.


PATIENCE...

As any farmer knows, sowing and reaping come under different seasons.  Before that, there is the preparation of the seeds, preparation of the soil, planting, irrigating, fertilizing, weeding, praying that there would not be any strong typhoon , long dry spell or  swarms of migratory locust that would ruin the harvest.  

In planting the seeds of love in Kim's heart, Xian had to contend with a fearful and hurting one.  Xian, who did not have any intention of falling, had to go against the tide of his own good reason and the focus on work he had to have for this chance of a lifetime that is handed to him on a proverbial silver platter by a favorable twist of fate or  to a believer that he is,  Divine Providence, that saw his worth.

Xian revealed showbiz was an unexpected break. “My heart really leaped when I got into showbiz. That’s why I feel it’s a waste of opportunity if I focus on a love life. That can wait.” 

Xian wants his girlfriend conservative

By WALDEN SADIRI

August 14, 2011, 8:00am http://latestphilippinesnews.com/news/41662/xian-wants-his-girlfriend-conservative

He did not come prepared for this childlike woman to sweep him off his feet or the resistance she offered against falling in love again for fear that she would experience the pain and the agony she had undergone only a year before.  To her, a year is too short a time to overcome the 4 years of day-to-day bonding gone awry.

Preparing his own heart against the growing attraction and affection was hard.  Xian is after all a hopeless romantic who found the girl of her dreams in Kim--fresh, natural, no-airs Kim who knew how to listen and to talk when need be; Kim  innately shy and good, simple, humble, prayerful; with a strong work ethic that rivals the best of the best  in the business.

Kim loves the things he loves  - music, sports, physical fitness, healthy food, discipline, gadgets; laughs at his jokes; capable of staying  hour after hour of mindless work and still come up smiling the morning after. Kim has none of the prima donna ways that plague the industry found in artists who  have reached a certain level of success and a certain level of fatigue.  This Xian attests  repeatedly to a  Kim  who is the "definition of sweet", "incomparable, amazing".

Kim and Xian bonded in their talks in the lull of taping My Binondo Girl. They learned more of each other and how they mirrored each other's lives; how they both learned how to cope; to shed off the shyness in the business where shyness is a liability because the self can be an obstacle to good acting or performing.

They had cross purposes in how they landed in Philippine showbiz but one thing was sure, they both wanted to succeed in it and to sustain whatever success they attain.

These free-flowing  talks, these knowing each other better and liking what they learned of each other helped them translate the reality of their friendship into  an explosive chemistry onscreen  mesmerizing everyone who saw the spark earlier than they did, making these MBG Jandy/Kimxi fans crave for more after the show ended.

Now Kim and Xian have Ina, Kapatid, Anak and whatever is hoped for for reel has overflowed into something that is hoped for for real. They say they are taking it slow and we listen to them; to march only  to the beat of the KimXi drum.

          CTO - Xian's mission is to put a smile on Kimmy's beautiful face.

                      Kim on the threshold of something wonderful...

Xian who is not shy about exhibiting his wanting to make Kim happy and wanting to make her feel special to counter the feeling of rejection and low self-esteem that Xian, a student of Psychology and human behavior, senses in  Kim, is now reaping the fruits of his "labor".  Kim is blossoming under his loving care and attention.  Bringing joy into Kim's life has also brought joy to his own. 

                                       CTO - Performing "Just a Kiss"

 

                   and how the fingers first intertwined in a production number.

                                   ASAP - March 25, 2012

                                 Love signs of the times from KimXi.


                           CTO -  Concerned Xian checking out Kim's eye 

                 poked during Volleyball game; Xian unaware of the incident.
http://www.abs-cbnnews.com/video/entertainment/07/30/12/kapamilya-stars-show-sporty-side-star-magic-games  (Bandila - poke in the eye incident recounted among others.)

Sa nakikita naman namin, posibleng mauwi sa isang relasyon ang pagkakaibigan ngayon ng dalawa. Posibleng sagutin ni Kim si Xian. Halata naman kasing kinikilig ang dalaga kapag nakakasama at nababanggit sa kanya si Xian. At isa malaking factor din para nga sagutin ni Kim si Xian 'yung madalas nilang pagkikita ngayon dahil sa taping nila para sa bagong serye ng ABS-CBN 2 ang Ina, Kapatid, Anak  -
Rommel Placente.

 CTO

There is an air of  contentment that shows in two people just happy being together.

CTO

There is no looking back.

CTO Happy as happy can be.

CTO - As beautiful as the flowers she holds.

Kim, looking into a bright future filled with wonderment and a present that is just full of happiness, as full as her arms that are loaded with flowers. Everything is coming up roses; a blockbuster film and a blockbuster of a "man that is closest to her heart"  in Xian. Take heart, the future will just take care of itself, in God's will and grace.  Thanks be to God!

CTO - The eyes have it, very expressive; windows of Xian's soul. 

Xian, up close.

CTO- The chest has it too. Strong and broad for Kim.

                       "I am happy just seeing Kim happy". - Xian

Some significant definitions:

"Love is happiness over the happiness of another."

"Envy is sadness over the happiness of another."

     CTO - " His eyes and Chest" - Kim's Fave parts of Xian's body. 

(Kim -GGV-5/20/12).

                CTO - The many faces of Kim and Xian...

Kim and Xian, I can feel the happiness that is brimming through your eyes.  On a Xian mode, your happiness are my/our happiness.

Xian has planted the seeds of happiness in Kim's heart, weeded out the envious, gossip and such, the  undesirables which  choke the seeds of happiness before they can get rooted; fertilized them with loving, caring attention; watered  them  with frequent calls, texts, Instagrams and put them out into the sun of laughter and good cheer.  The seeds have grown and are flowering, soon to bear fruit, which fruit shall soon ripen.

Sa panayam ng PEP.ph (Philippine Entertainment Portal) kay Kim Chiu, inamin niya na maikukunsidera niyang si Xian Lim ang pinakamalapit na lalaki sa puso niya. Ayon nga sa aktres, consistent sa panliligaw ang kapareha at natutuwa siya na sinusuyo rin ni Xian ang kanyang pamilya.

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Saad ni Xian, “Siyempre, nakaka-touch naman. Masaya, kasi siyempre siya ang lagi kong kasama, siya yung kilala ng mommy ko…“Kilala na siya ng mga kaibigan and same with on her side rin naman. Kilala na ako ng family nila. "Sana magustuhan nila ako… mabuti naman akong tao.”


XIAN’S PLEDGE. Nagbitiw rin ng salita si Xian na kahit ano ang mangyari ay hindi siya mawawala sa tabi ng kapareha. “Isa lang ang sasabihin ko sa inyo, basta nandito lang ako para sa kanya.
“If ever mayroon siyang kailangan, problema, nandito ako para problemahin yun kasama siya.
"Nandito ako para sa kanya." http://pep.ph/news/35119/xian-lim-on-courting-kim-chiu-and-her-family-ldquosana-magustuhan-nila-akohellip-mabuti-naman-akong-taordquo by Melba Llanera July 31, 2012.

Xian's efforts are bearing fruit.  Kim is declaring to the world that Xian is the "man closest to her heart now".(...si Xian Lim and pinakamalapit na lalaki sa puso ko ngayon..."  

Xian is enjoying the company of Kim, the only woman, he ever wants to be with.  Kim is the same way.   Kim and Xian are in good stead; of this, we are most assured. 

However people may label what they have, Xian emphatically says, it is their call; one thing he can say for sure is  there is no other but Kim in his life right now and he is  happy being with her.  (in Vibes Tayo with Ogie Diaz and Rommel Placente - 8-1-12)

Kim is the only person he confides his innermost feelings to and vice-versa and pledges he will always be with her and for her.  http://pep.ph/news/35119/xian-lim-on-courting-kim-chiu-and-her-family-ldquosana-magustuhan-nila-akohellip-mabuti-naman-akong-taordquo by Melba Llanera July 31, 2012. 

What moving  words to say for eveyone to hear and read. This is already paraphrasing the wedding vows. Xian stands undaunted and unbowed. Keep on keeping on, Xian.  

I, ____, take you, ____, to be my (husband/wife). I promise to be true to you in good times and in bad, in sickness and in health. I will love you and honor you all the days of my life. In the United States, Catholic wedding vows may also take the following form^[1]: I, ____, take you, ____, to be my lawfully wedded(husband/wife), to have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, until death do us part.  (Wikipedia)

            

CTO - Nandito lang ako...nandito lang ako...I won't move . (Xian to Kim -7-11-12 after Kim's bday message to Xian.

Xian is in a class all his own.  I can now understand why he refuses to use the word "ligaw" or courtship.  Courtship can be selfish.  This means I do these things for you and hope you will be my girl and if you don't respond positively then I will leave you in peace.  

Xian's affirmation is on a different level.  He just wants to make Kim happy, make her feel special and if she does not respond to his liking, he will still continue to be there for her as his pledge says:  "XIAN’S PLEDGE. Nagbitiw rin ng salita si Xian na kahit ano ang mangyari ay hindi siya mawawala sa tabi ng kapareha. “Isa lang ang sasabihin ko sa inyo, basta nandito lang ako para sa kanya. 

“If ever mayroon siyang kailangan, problema, nandito ako para problemahin yun kasama siya.
"Nandito ako para sa kanya."  (Pep.ph by Melba Llanera, 7-31-12.

What he says here  "kahit ano ang mangyari hindi sya mawawala sa tabi ng kapareha"...his pursuit is unconditional; no matter what happens, he will always be there for Kim.  He will always be standing by her side.  Always means forever.

                             CTO - Stand by your side by Celine Dion 

A farm no matter how well planted and tended can still come under the vagaries of   weather; typhoons, floods , a long dry spell, drought can destroy the  crop.   

As a man of faith, the farmer  entrusts his cultivation to the Lord of the Harvest, the One who makes plants grow and protects them not only from the forces of nature but also from  pests  that can ruin his harvest.  

God heeds the cries of His people.  He blesses the work of His consistent and dutiful farmer for a bountiful harvest.  Praise God and give Him thanks always!

As a man of faith, I am sure Xian has already entrusted his intentions to the Lord, praying that all he says and does for Kim are all within His will and grace and to shower him with all the blessings he needs that his budding relationship with Kim  will thrive and flourish in  Jesus' name.  Let us all join our thoughts with  Kim and Xian  and together say Amen to Xian's quest!  Prayer is power!

In time, Xian who has planted seeds of happiness and love, will reap the same in full measure and since they are planted in Kim's heart; his harvest is that heart and more.  His heart will then be one with hers; this, Xian hopes and prays for and in our love, we also hope and pray for him.  Kim has already categorically said that  Xian is "the man closest to her heart."  What a beautiful day this is!  God is good!

CTO - Speak softly, Love by Johnny Mathis

                                                             -o0o-